Why You Must Avoid a Golddigger  

When it comes to relationships, we always want to date according to our level. Call it cutting out coats according to the size of our cloth. 

When you do not know the type of people to associate yourself with, you will always suffer in your dating game. There are some categories of people that you can never please, when you are dating them.

They have a very high standard that you might struggle so hard to meet but cannot. You need to know of some of these people in order not to land yourself in their web.

Today, our focus will be on golddiggers, and why you should never consider them when it comes to dating. We shall discuss some of the reasons why you must avoid golddiggers at all cost, unless you are ready to live up to their expectations.

If you are someone from a background that is not so affluent, and cannot pay much for anything including relationships, then you should avoid golddiggers.  

That being said, let us look at just six reasons why you should not think of dating a golddigger. Let's jump into it. 

1. They Don't Care About You

A golddigger's loyalty is to the money and material things she will get and not you. Because of this, they care very little about your well-being when you are in a relationship with them.

They will never encourage you to level up or to pursue your dreams. What they do everyday is to bombard your table with so much demands and requests.

They just want to line their pockets and wallets and whatever you go through to get their needs sorted out is non of their business. All they care about is that you are able to provide for them what they want.

This type of relationship will always be against you. You will never have a peace of mind to do any other thing. Avoid them and have your peace of mind.

2. They Are Ungrateful 

Another worrying trait about golddiggers is that, they are highly ungrateful. A golddigger will never appreciate whatever you do for her, as she is always in to ask for more. 

When you finish solving one of her demands, she comes through with another. She is quick to remind you that you are doing well enough to keep her.

She also likes comparing you to other men whom she thinks are doing well for their partners. She will draw a comparison between you and those men but will conveniently ignore her part. 

If you are looking for appreciation from a golddigger, it is like expecting a ship at the airport. It is not going to be possible. Golddiggers and appreciation are parallel lines, they never meet.

3. They Can Easily Cheat

Another challenge that you will constantly face when you are dating a golddigger is that, they have higher tendencies of cheating on you. 

Because of their insatiable demands, they are easily swayed by men who can afford their needs. It is sometimes very difficult to tell whether they are with someone elsewhere when they are out of your presence.

Golddiggers always have a price tag, and whoever can meet this price tag can have her. This is not the type of lady that you want to enter into a relationship with. 

You should be dating a person whom you are very comfortable with when she's not with you. She should be priceless such that no amount of money can buy her loyalty. 

4. They Can Sell You Out for Peanuts

Golddiggers again have another dangerous tendency of selling you out for peanuts. If you are dating a golddigger, she can easily sell your secrets to your enemies and get paid some paltry amount of money.

They do this just to get enough of money for their own needs. They are too selfish, always thinking about themselves and ignoring every other person around. 

When your enemies want to get you, it takes just a golddigger in your life to give you out. Remember, her needs can never be met. 

5. They Are Blackmailers 

A golddigger can set you up and blackmail you just to get what she needs from you. 

When she gets closer to you, she will start by doing good things towards winning your trust. Through this, she will get to know some of your little secrets. It is those secrets that she will use to blackmail you. 

She can even go to the extent of getting photos and videos of you in a compromised situation and using those to blackmail and extort money from you.  

6. You Can't Cater for Their Needs

Finally, you should forget about taking care of a golddigger such that she doesn't lack anything in her life. You cannot do that. 

Their needs are more than the hair on your head and meeting them is practically impossible. You do not have to stress yourself thinking that you can cater for a golddigger's needs very well. 

Just live your life and do for her what you can comfortably do without going through stress. If you do not take your time you will squander all your resources trying to take care of her.  

Conclusion 

For your own mental health and happiness, you should avoid golddiggers when you are about to settle down. They are not going to give you any peace of mind, so avoid them.

They are highly ungrateful, they can blackmail you, you cannot take care of them, they can sell you out, they don't care about you and they can easily cheat on you. 

For these and many other reasons, you should avoid golddiggers at all cost. It will do you a lot of good.