Basic Ethical Codes for Men
Do you want to know some of the important basic ethical codes that every man is expected to go by? Well, today, you will find out.
We shall be discussing some of the basic codes that should be the guiding principles of a young man coming up. These ethics will help keep you in place and on focus.
They will also save you from unnecessary embarrassment in front of the opposite gender. When you are able to abide by these ethics, you will attain the alpha male status.
Whether you are an alpha male already or an aspiring alpha male, this article is for you. Let us start with the first ethical code.
Never Allow A Woman To Feed You
The first brother's code is that you should never allow yourself to be fed by a woman for even a week. As a man you are the head and not the tail.
You are given the responsibility of taking care of the family and footing every bill that comes with it. As a result, you should be the one providing for the family and not the other way round.
When you refuse to shoulder your responsibility of feeding the family and allow the woman to do it, you have instantly surrendered your manliness.
You should rather be the woman whiles the woman take up the role of the man in the family, since you have proven very incapable.
One problem associated with getting fed by a woman is that, you cannot have your peace of mind whenever you're at home. You will always be feeling guilty.
If she is not even the good type who can keep secrets, she will let the whole world to know how incompetent you are. She will make sure she tells the whole world how she is been feeding you and the family.
Never Spend The Night at a Woman's Place
The second code for the brotherhood is that, no matter your situation, never spend the night at a woman's place. You might be dating a woman who is having her own apartment elsewhere.
You can go and visit her but you must not sleep over. Doing that is not a good thing for you as a man.
A man is expected to bring a woman home to live together after marriage and not the other way. So, when you are dating, you should be very careful not to confuse this role.
Do not allow the woman to house you for even a night. Always find your own accommodation elsewhere even if the woman is living in a distant location. She can join you at the location that you have procured for your stay and not you going to stay with her.
She might be having other guys around who might bump into the two of you when you least expected it. To be sure of not getting caught up, always host your woman at your convenient place.
Never Cry in Front of a Girl
Crying in front of a girl makes you weak and brothers are supposed to observe this ethics and never cry when they are with a girl.
Some people might want to express their grief by crying when a girl tells them to stop a relationship. No matter the amount of shock or heartbreak that you feel at that moment, it is unwise to cry.
Bottle your grief and move away as if nothing happens. You may let everything out when you get home alone.
If you cry in front of a girl, she will see you as a weakling, and women do not like men who are not men enough. You are supposed to be tough emotionally, and not weak.
The girl will see you as a crying baby who cannot do anything on your own. Save yourself the embarrassment by never crying in front of a woman.
Never Beg a Girl To Love You
Anything begged for will require constant begging to work. As such, a man must never beg a woman to love him. If the woman is not interested in your life, allow her to be.
You must not let your guard down to the extent of going down on bended knees to ask a girl to love you. Present your proposal as a man, and watch her reaction. If her reaction is positive or negative, you take it in good faith.
Never Date a Brother's Ex
Another very important ethical code for brothers is that you should never date the ex of another brother you know.
As boys, you belong to groups and social classes. When any of your guy's girlfriends break up with them, you are not supposed to propose love to them.
They become a taboo for you. You can actually keep in contact with them, because you are not enemies. But dating them should be off the menu.
If you are fond of dating the exes of your friends, you are not far from being embarrassed. The brotherhood will lose trust in you and very soon, you won't have anyone to stick around with.
Hustle Before Love
To be a man, is not an easy job. You are bombarded with all forms of responsibilities. Because of this, you are expected to hustle hard to meet some of these demands.
If you are growing up, you should rather prioritize hustling to make money over love. When you finally get the money, the girls will come to you uninvited.
But if you focus on love, you won't get the love and you won't also get the money. No woman will love to be with a broke guy who doesn't know what it takes to put food on the table.
She will rather choose the one who is with a genuine hustle and very ready to take care of a family. So, please heed to this code, and you will see that love will definitely follow you.
Conclusion
As a boy growing up, you must keep all these seven ethical codes for the brotherhood intact. You must not break a single one of them.
If you are able to implement all of these, then, you are now in the league of alpha males. You will have your life well fixed physically, emotionally, psychologically and financially.
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