How to Unlove Someone You Can't Get

Sometimes we are caught in a tricky situation where the person we love so much doesn't love us back. Or, she is that person whom we obviously cannot get.

We are free to have a crush on anyone at all but we do not have same luxury when it comes to actually dating the fellow you are crushing on. This is where the issue gets murky.

This high-value woman has occupied every thought of yours, and you seem not to be getting enough of her in your mind. 

But the reality is that, she is someone you cannot have. The distance between your class and her class is like the distance separating the sky and the ground.

Now, it is time to let go of her memories and re-engineer your life to a new direction that will prove fruitful to you.  

This stage is not as easy as it may appear. But I am here to help you overcome the hard times. I will be walking you through some of the tips that you can follow to unlove someone you won't get. 

Trust me when I say it is not easy to unlove someone like that. It's really kind of hard and you need to have a strong fighting spirit to be able to get through this tough phase easily. 

If you are ready to learn this new tips, then follow me let's jump into it. 

How to Unlove Someone You Can't Get 

Create Some Distance

The first step that you should follow in order to Unlove someone is to create a distance between you two. Create a physical distance, emotional and psychological distance as well. 

Reduce the number of times that you strategically place yourself at vantage points just to catch a glimpse of her. Avoid the places where seeing her becomes a common thing.

When you distance yourself from the fellow, you will see that the love that you had for her will begin to diminish. It is a natural process, and it will swiftly happen without you forcing anything.

When you don't see her quite often like you used to, the love will also not be high as it used to. If you are a follower of her on social media, consider taking a break from visiting her timeline. You may even unfollow her to quicken the unloving process. 

Focus on Self Care 

Another magic thing that can take your mind off her is by focusing on self care. Pay so much attention to yourself, engage in activities that you enjoy doing and always think about improving everyday.

If it is a game you love to play, commit some substantial amount of time on that and you will see that the game will occupy the part of your brain where the girl used to occupy. 

Some people can also engage in physical activities such as yoga or meditation. These activities can help your body to release some stress relieving and happy trigger hormones that will reset your focus and the things you occupy your mind with.

Be very conscious about this and you will see the improvement that you will make in a short while. At first, it might not be that easy, but with time, you will not even realize when you took her from your mind. It will happen so swift.

Allow Time to Heal

You will definitely be hurt for the mere fact that you are crushing on someone you cannot get. It makes you feel sad and always sober. 

It will take some time to heal from the emotional wounds that you have inflicted upon yourself. You need not to rush the process. Give time some time to heal. 

With each passing day, you will notice how fast you are recovering from such an emotional breakdown. Time is everything and you should allow it to take care of your healing.

When you are successfully healed, you will see that you no longer harbor any form of feelings for the girl you so much desired in the past.  

Reflect on Reality 

Another way to easily unlove someone that you cannot get is by reflecting on the reality. What is the reality here? The reality is that, your worlds are two different ones. You are not actually in her league. 

That is the stark reality. Acknowledge this fact, and you will realize how fast her love will fade from your mind. You won't have anything to do with her again if you accept your reality.

Accept that, it's not everything you desire that you will have in the world, and this includes the girls you want to date. This will lower your expectations and bring your love for such a girl down. 

Invest in Personal Growth

This is another proven way that you can easily follow to unlove someone you can't get. Investing in your personal growth can be time consuming to the extent that you won't have time to think about any other thing including her.

If it is a skill that you want to learn, a language that you want to learn, or you want to start a new business, it will help you unlove the girl so quick.

Sometimes too, investing in your personal growth is a form of leveling up that you must do in order to meet the standard of the girl you are crushing on.

The kind of good feeling that you will get by just focusing on developing yourself will replace the feeling you had for the girl. 

This is not only a good way to unlove the fellow, but it will also help you to grow so well that you will prioritize personal development and growth over lustful things. 

Final Thoughts 

It is not a crime to have a crush on someone, but it becomes a crime when you know that you can't get them and still don't find ways to unlove them.  

If you have ever found yourself in such situations, you will attest to the fact that it is time consuming and also wastes resources willfully. 

It is time for you to backtrack and rethink about your priorities. Is she really your priority at the moment? I guess the answer is a big no. 

Follow the steps raised in this article to be able to completely unlove someone you cannot have. 

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