Reasons Why Women Chase You When You Ignore Them

As supposed to be the norm, women are supposed to be chased by men and not the other way round. But there are some instances where women turn to chase men instead men chasing them.

There is a trick to get this done. Women turn to chase men who ignore them. In this article, we shall be talking about some of the reasons why women chase men who ignore them.

There are many reasons associated with this scenario and we shall explore some of them in this brief article. 

So, if you are a man reading this, you should try as much as you can to pay maximum attention and follow through the points till the end. You might find the magic in there and also exploit it to your advantage.

Just some few men are able to pull this trick on women. Mind you, it takes a great deal of courage to be able to ignore a girl you love, for so many hours. But persevering through have some dividends you could reap.

Some people can ignore a girl for hours or even days without making any attempts to get in contact with them. They can even decide not to reply their messages or calls, and this keeps them wondering. 

Without wasting much time, let's get into some of the reasons why women chase men who ignore them.

The Scarcity Principle

One reason why women chase after men who ignore them is the scarcity principle. When a man is constantly or intermittently ignoring a lady, she will have the feeling that the guy is a high value one, a reason why he is that scarce.

Even in commodities, the scarce ones are those that people crumble for. Everyone wants to secure their share before it goes completely out of the system. 

This works too for men who act scarce by ignoring women. It also creates the impression on the minds of women that you have other highly important things doing, to the extent that you can go hours without replying their messages.

Being scarce also means that you are not just a random aimless person who is just lurking around waiting for her messages. It pricks their curiosity and they want to make you their own

Playing Hard to Get

Playing hard to get is one of the tricks that women pull on men that seems to be dragging them down emotionally anytime they want to establish a relationship with them. 

Men can also employ this strategy to make sure the ladies come hovering around them for their attention. 

When a man ignores a woman, the woman will be having lots of wild thoughts going through her mind. She might be thinking that you are really someone who is highly valuable that you cannot be gotten on a silver platter.

Nothing good comes easy, remember? You will completely conquer her mind if you play hard to get, and she will start chasing you for your attention. She wouldn't want to let you go.

Women like guys who prove that they have many options available to them. It is through pulling the trick of ignoring them that will make them feel that you are playing hard to get. 

Desire for Validation

Women love validation from the outside world. Imagine you just met this girl whom you have made your intentions known to. 

You are all over her and this boosts her ego that much. She feels that she is that girl who is highly sought after. 

All of a sudden, you begin to draw back, taking time to reply her messages or ignoring them completely. She will begin to wonder what has come over you.

She will start thinking about how to get your attention back and get you all over her again. This makes her feel wanted or desired. So, she will do anything to get you stick around her. 

Proves You Are Not Needy

When you ignore a girl, it asserts your own independence and self reliance. It shows that you are not a needy person who needs her love and attention for survival.

No girl wants to be with someone who is needy in any form. So, by ignoring her,  she will realize that you have many options available to you.

She will also realize that she is just one of many other ladies who will not miss the chance to have someone like you in their lives. With this in mind, she will work her way out to be able to get you back to her.

She will chase you with everything within her power to have you to herself. 

Creates Mystery and Challenge

Lastly, when you ignore a girl, it creates an air of mystery and challenge. Girls will be thinking; how come other guys are just drooling over me and this one guy seems different?

He doesn't even push that much to have me to himself. What is happening? All this makes her want to get to you to know what you are really up to.

She will be seen doing the chasing instead of you. Pull back a bit and watch how the situation unfolds. 

Final Thought

It is possible to have girls chasing after you, especially when you ignore them. The reasons given in this article are just some of the few that we have listed. 

One last thing is that, you should not completely ignore a girl you want to date. Do it with caution as too much of it can deny you the opportunity to get the girl of your choice.