Signs That She's Forcing Herself to Love You  

A lady can be in a relationship with you but still not love you that much. She can just be using you for certain gains but really not into you as a boyfriend.

When it happens like that, she will be forcing herself to love you. So, how do you tell if a woman is forcing herself to love you? Well, there are some signs that you need to keep in mind to be able to tell.

In this guide, we shall be looking at some of the sure signs that she's forcing herself to love you. Her love for you is not driven by genuineness but what she stands to gain from the relationship. 

Now, let us look at some of these signs.

1. Lack of Genuine Enthusiasm 

We have all being in love before, and we know how aggressive we can be when the connection is pure and genuine.

A day hardly goes without you hearing multiple times from the man or woman that you love. You are very enthusiastic about getting closer to each other.

But this is not the case when it comes to forced love. A lady who is forcing herself to love you will exhibit signs of lack of genuine enthusiasm.

She will not make any effort to get closer to you. Anytime she does that, then she's doing it out of pity for you or just so she can get what she wants from you. 

When you notice that a lady hardly calls you, hardly makes time to talk and getting together to spend some quality time, then it means the girl is not really into you. She is just forcing herself to love you 

2. Makes Minimal Effort When it Comes to Communication 

Similar to the first point, a girl who is forcing herself to love you will not make any serious efforts at reaching out to you for a fruitful conversation.  

She doesn't initiate any form of communication unless you start it. When you start a conversation with her, she finds excuses just to hang up the phone or go somewhere where she will avoid your presence.

We all know how important communication is when it comes to building successful relationships. But with this kind of lady, communication is the last on the radar. 

Advise yourself by staying away from her no matter the amount of love that you have for her. She won't love you genuinely. 

3. Avoidance of Physical Int!macy 

Another sign that she is forcing herself to love you is that, she makes flimsy excuses just to avoid physical int!macy with you. 

You can set a day to go on a date, and she will agree that she will be available on that day, only to give you excuses that she cannot make it. This can continue for a number of times and all her reasons might not be coherent with the truth.

When she even agrees to visit you, she makes the meeting so brief. This is just an attempt to get away from you since she's not really into you. 

4. Inconsistency 

Her love for you is inconsistent with what she tells you. Her behavior and actions are fluctuating and she says A and do B without expressing any form of guilt.

This way is just to tell you that she has other things occupying her mind and not your love. She is literally forcing herself to love you. 

5. Emotional Distance 

A woman who is forcing herself to love a man do not have any emotional connection with the man. She distances herself from you emotionally.

She has her mind somewhere, probably, she is in love with another man. As a result, she will never have any form of emotional feelings for you. 

She doesn't complain when you cheat and has no interest in your life. She doesn't ask questions on your plans for the future of you and her, she just live her life. 

6. Comparison With Past Relationships 

When she keeps reminding you of your flaws by comparing you to her exes, it means she is not finding the right reasons to love you.  

She has not gotten over her exes yet, and for that matter she still thinks about them all the time. This will make her not have time for you.

Conclusion 

A woman can pretend to love you without you knowing. She can make all the efforts not to have anything to do with you and you might not realize it. 

The signs discussed here will help you be able to make a decision when you are in love with a girl who doesn't really love you but forcing herself to love you.