Mistakes That Can Ruin Your Chances of Dating Her

When you see a girl and you like her, getting to talk to her and express your intentions is very key. Whiles you may get a good response, there are instances where your actions may ruin your chances.

We are going to look at some of the mistakes that can ruin your chances of getting the girl of your dream to start a relationship with.  

These mistakes, when not corrected, will prevent you from getting the lady of your dream. We shall be highlighting some of these mistakes for you to avoid.

Without further ado, let's get started.

Lack of confidence

When you are approaching a lady, one thing that can help maximize your chances is confidence. This is a great tool you can exploit to get the girl to agree to start a relationship with you.

Conversely, if you are not confident, it will give the wrong impression about you. This is a mistake that you should avoid.  

You need to prepare well before making your first move. If you're not sure of your lines, you should wait until you are really confident. That way you can increase your chances.

Poor communication

Effective communication is the lifeblood of every relationship, and this is also important in starting the relationship in the first place.

But when you are about to approach a lady and your communication skills are poor, it will not guarantee you success. 

Failing to listen to her will expose you. You should also learn how to listen and what to say at what time. Learn the basics of communication in order to be able to date the girl you want.  

Being too aggressive

Being too aggressive when you are approaching a woman can be a turnoff for her. You should respect her boundaries and avoid doing things that will make her uncomfortable.

Be calm and take your time in understanding her needs and boundaries. If she says do not call at certain times of the day, please respect that and do not break the rule.

Being gentle and respectful throughout your approach will help you to be able to get the chance of getting her entering into a relationship with you.

Dishonesty

Dishonesty in any form and shape can be something that will not give you an upper hand when approaching a woman.  

We all do not like dishonest people, do we? Same applies to the girl you want to marry. If she discovers that you are not being truthful to her, she will reject your proposal. 

Be honest with her from the get go. It is not a crime to be truthful to the person that you want to spend your life with. 

Lack of effort

Some men do not put in a lot of effort when wooing a lady and that might work against them. You need to put in the effort if you really want to date the girl of your dreams.

Just like anything you are pursuing, you need maximum effort to be able to get what you want. Do not think that a woman will just accept you the moment you approach her.  

She might reject your proposal for a number of times, but efforts and persistence will finally give you the chance. 

Being disrespectful

No one can stand a disrespectful person. Being disrespectful to a woman you want to date will decrease your chances of getting her. 

A lot of women will intentionally test your patience to see how you will react. They will then base their final decision on your reaction. Be polite and do not go the disrespectful way. 

Conclusion 

It's not a good thing to want to be in a relationship with someone and you don't know what will increase or decrease your chances. The mistakes you make today can affect you when you are approaching a lady for a relationship.

You need to learn about these mistakes and avoid them if you want to get the chance to be in a relationship with a woman. We have just discussed s number of those mistakes.

It is my hope that you will avoid those mistakes and increase your chances in the dating game.