Five Areas You Should Test Your Girlfriend To Know If She Is Loyal

When you are in a relationship with a girl, you might not know whether she loves you genuinely or not. But with some tests that you can put her through, you will be able to tell whether she is the right one or not. 

In this era of uncertainties, one cannot really tell the intentions of other people who come into your life.  

We shall be discussing some of the little tricks that you can test your partner on in order to find out whether she is the genuine one for you or not. 

I can tell you on authority that when the person fails the tests, she cannot be the one for you. If you need a stable home, you must avoid them. 

1. The Gift Challenge 

The first test you can put your partner through in order to be able to determine her true intentions is the gift challenge. What do I mean by the gift challenge? I will explain.

In the relationship, when you are with your partner and she requests for something, you easily give when you have the means. Well, in this case, you should not give even if you have. 

Watch her reaction afterwards and you will be able to tell if she is the right one for you or not. If she reacts roughly and disrespectfully afterwards,  you should just run away from her. 

It means she is not really the one for you. She is probably in your life for the benefits she will derive from you.

In the other hand, if she reacts calmly and never takes it to be anything, then you are good to make her your lifetime partner. 

She can even encourage you and acknowledge that not every season is good. She will look for other means to get what she wants without disrespecting you.

This test can really help you to be able to know if she is the right partner for you or not. 

2. Quality Time Challenge 

You can also challenge her to a quality time together. We live in a world where technology has come to ease more of our burden.

We can interact with one another without having to be present at a location. This is more applicable in relationships these days. 

You can be chatting with your partner over the phone for a long time without seeing each other physically. 

You can challenge her by inviting her over to your place to discuss an important issue. If she comes and all her concentration is on her phone leaving the communication to you alone, you should know where her priorities lie.  

She probably has more to do with other people than you, that is why she is seen chatting with others online whiles neglecting you in her presence. 

If she continues to do this in your presence, then she is not really into you. She is not a committed partner. 

3. The Support Challenge 

Another test you can put your partner through is what I call the support challenge. As you are in the relationship, you should at a point in time just tell her that things are not going well with you.

Ask her to help you with some money to sort out certain stuffs in your life. Watch her reaction and see whether she will rant or not. 

You can as well take her to your favorite restaurant and tell her how bad things have been for you lately, and that she should please sort the bills out. 

Before doing this, you should be aware that she has some money to use for sorting the bills. If she refuses and asks that you look elsewhere for the money, then she is really materialistic and cares very little about the relationship.  

4. The Conflict Challenge 

In a relationship, there is bound to be conflicts at some point in time. And when there is conflict, you are supposed to address that maturely as couples.

You can test the conflict resolution skills of your partner by intentionally doing something that will cause a conflict between you two. Watch how she reacts to the issue and it will tell you how she will react during conflicts when you finally get married. 

If she is able to use dialogue and other forms to resolve the issue amicably, then she can handle difficult situations the right way when she is hurt.

5. The Cheating Challenge 

This is a test that most ladies might not pass, so I won't recommend you to rely solely on this to be able to tell whether your partner is a wife material or not. 

You can fake a phone conversation with a friend who is a girl and try flirting. Compromise the chats such that she can see them. Her reaction will be something you can rely on to inform your next decision.

Again, do not use this one to judge her. Most girls will not pass this test.  

Conclusion 

It is important to be sure of the intentions of the girl you are dating towards you. You must know whether she can keep a proper marriage or not. 

Use the five tests discussed here to try out the genuineness of your partner's love.