Benefits of Having One Partner
When it comes to dating and marriage, there are a lot of different ideologies that control the choices people make. Some are cultural norms, whiles others are just personal choices.
Whiles some go for one, others prefer to go the polygamous way. Today, we are going to examine the benefits of having and sticking to just one partner.
Having one partner can be tremendously beneficial to the man in many different ways. We will just highlight few of those benefits.
Without wasting much time, let us look at some of the benefits of having one wife.
Saves Money
Economically, sticking to one partner saves you a lot of money. Having one partner means you will be spending less on keeping her and the family.
As compared to having more than one partner, you can easily cater for a wife than two. If you are buying clothes, you are only doing that for one person.
As a matter of fact, you can also produce a modest family which will have less impact on you economically. You will be able to save a lot of money for other projects.
Instead of using your money to marry or cater for multiple girlfriends, why don't you invest the rest of the money after spending less on your single partner?
Health Benefits
Another benefit of having one partner is that it is going to be a good thing for your health. Most S.T.Is come as a result of having multiple partners.
When you stick to one partner, and you both stay loyal to each other, you will be protected from all manner of S.T.Is such as HIV/AIDS, Syphilis, Candidiasis, Clamydia etc.
Some of these S.T.Is can even claim your life as some still have no proper cure. HIV for instance, has no known cure yet. Save yourself from the trauma of getting infected by sticking to just a single partner.
Stability of Mind
You also get stable mindset when you are in a relationship with one partner. Once your partner understands your life and you also understand hers, you are good to go.
You will not be disturbed emotionally with constant pressure from different women.
We all know how stressful it can be to be in a relationship with two or more partners at the same time. The economic impact it will have on you will make you stressed out emotionally.
Again, if the partners are not in good terms, you shall never know peace in your home. Everyday will be one problem after the other.
But hey, having a single partner is not a guarantee that you will have a greater peace of mind. A single wife might be more stressful than many. But all the same, having one partner is more fun and can have less stress.
Greater Support System
When you are with one partner, she can be truly helpful and supportive of your ideas. She knows that your success is her success and your failure is her failure.
Because of this, she will always support you in running the day-to-day affairs of the family. Even when you are not doing well financially, she will find a way of supporting you.
But when you have multiple partners, they will only be rivaling one another and pulling every little resources from you.
Increased Happiness and Well-being
There will be increased happiness and well-being in the family of one wife than a family of many partners.
There will be less quarrels in a family where the man lives with just one wife than a family where the man has more than one partner.
Conclusion
Having a single partner is a good thing and every man should make it a point to stick to one. Even though your culture or religion might permit you to have multiple partners, you should always examine the situation before you commit yourself.
The benefits mentioned in this article are just a tip of the iceberg. There are many others which we shall be discussing in subsequent articles.
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