Signs That She is Only After Your Money

There are some tricky instances in relationships where a man may not be able to tell whether his girlfriend is genuinely in love with him or she is in love with your money.

This has happened to a lot of men and still happening to many men. You can invest all your time and money on a girl and she will one day ditch you when you go broke or even refuse to succumb to some of her financial demands.

It is very common in Africa for ladies to feel highly dependent on their men for everything including what they wear. This makes it difficult for one to know which girl is in for the money and who is in for love.

This article will highlight some of the signs you can look out for in order to be able to know whether your girlfriend is after your money or real love.

When you detect that your girlfriend exhibits some of these signs in the relationship, it is time to call it quits. She is not really the ideal lady for you.  

Grab a bottle of your favorite drink whiles I take you through the signs of a gold digger. Without much ado, let's take a deep dive into the signs. 

Materialistic Behavior

The first sign that a girl is in for your money is when she has more materialistic tendencies. When she constantly talks about expensive things or possessions, experiences but shows little interest in other aspects of your life.

A girl who is after your money will always be concerned about what material things she will get from you. She doesn't care much about your emotional well-being and other aspects of your personal growth. 

Girls with materialistic desires are not the right ones for you. They are for the streets and not meant for a guy who is ready to settle down. 

She Expects Expensive Gifts or Treats From You

A girl who is after your money but not love is always eager to request fro expensive gifts or expensive treats from you. 

She knows all the big restaurants and hotels where she can go and have all the fun she desires at the expense of you. She is very quick to suggest places of fun for you to take her but will never contribute a dime.

This type of girl becomes instantly disinterested in the relationship when her expectations are not met. She gives reasons for her inability to meet you as scheduled simply because of your inability to meet her demands. 

Avoiding Contribution

A girl who is after your money is never willing to make any form of contributions to the sustenance of the relationship. There are times that a girl will volunteer to also do certain things in the relationship. She may decide to pay for your lunch or contribute to the payment of some bills during your dates. 

But a materialistic girl will never want to be committed to this arrangement even when asked. She expects you to foot the bills for everything you do and never reciprocate that. 

Interest in Your Financial Status

A girl who is after your money is always eager to know more about your financial status. She is doing so just to be able to determine whether you are the right person for her or not. 

She also asks probing questions relating to your source of income, your assets, the cars you drive, or your financial investments. She does all of these without showing interest in your personal life and plans.  

Limited Interest in Your Personal Life

A girl after your money will really make you know that she is after your money. She doesn't have any interest in your life aside the part of you that she thinks she can gain from. 

Ironically, she is eagerly interested in knowing what you are up to in terms of your financial standing. She is really interested in the money and not you. 

Quick to Disappear During Financial Difficulties

A girl who is after your money will disappear immediately, in times of financial instability. She is quick to bolt or begin to show disinterest in the relationship the very moment she realizes that things have gone bad for you.  

This is very easy to detect. She is only interested in the financial gains and when that is no longer coming, she will not have anything to do with you again. 

Using Flattery or Charm to Gain Financial Benefits

This kind of girls are good in using flattery statements to get you part away with your money for them. They tend to shower you with praises that you are not even worth.

They can even go to the extent of causing trouble between you and your family and friends just to have you all to themselves and to be able to manipulate you for their financial gains.

Inconsistency in Behavior

The behavior of a girl who is after your money is erratic in behavior and never consistent. Her behavior and attitude is determined by how much she gets from you. 

When she is getting all her needs met by you, she is submissive and becomes one of the best things that have ever happened to you. She turns to be rude and disrespectful when you fail to provide for all her needs. 

They have a very inconsistent behavior and attitude. Avoid them. 

Pressuring You for Financial Support

A girl after your money will put all the pressure in the world on you just to settle her financial needs. When she needs support, she will pressure you into getting her her needs without taking into consideration how it will affect you.

Mostly, she will put pressure on you to provide for her luxurious lifestyle; something she can't even pay for herself. She has high taste but broke and jobless. 

Jobless But Possesses Expensive Things

A jobless and broke girl who owns expensive liabilities is one who will only fall in love for what she will get and not for love. 

This type of girls always have high taste but cannot foot the bills themselves. They are always looking for a guy around to foot such bills. They have multiple boyfriends, and you should never think that you are the only one she is dating.

Conclusion

When you are about to settle down, you need to be very careful about the kind of girls that you date. Those who are only after your money are those who are more in the system. 

You need to put your ears and eyes on the ground to be able to spot the right ones. The signs of a girl who is after your money are numerous, and we have just learnt about some of them in this article. 

You should not lose guard, always be on the lookout. Shine your eyes.