5 Things You Should Never Beg From a Girl
When you are in a relationship, it is sometimes difficult to understand what is wrong with the both of you. You may, at a point, be feeling like everything is falling apart.
This could be because you are doing things you are not supposed to do. When you begin doing things that make you look desperate, there is no way your girlfriend or wife will respect or value you.
We are going to be digging deep into some five things that you must never beg from a girl that you are dating or even your married wife.
When you keep begging for these five things, your wife or girlfriend will see you as desperate and vulnerable, and she will manipulate you to her advantage.
This is the more reason why you need to learn about these five things and stay far away from ever begging for them when you are in a relationship.
Heeding to this advice will save you stress and embarrassment. Let's dive deep into the five things that you should never beg your partner for.
1. Her Attention
When you are in a relationship, it's common for one party to feel uninterested in the relationship at a point. But most at times, it is the ladies who appear disinterested in the relationship even when you are doing everything right.
It is a kind of ego booster that they cannot do without. Let me put it bluntly; they pretend not to be interested just so you can chase them. This, in a way, boosts their ego and they feel wanted.
But do you know that as you keep begging for her attention, you are gradually losing your respect and value? You will be seen as desperate and vulnerable. This will present her the perfect opportunity to manipulate you.
Some may even extort money from you. They simply will sell the attention to you and if you cannot afford, they deny you what you so much crave for.
Do not be a weakling by begging for a girl's attention. If she is not reciprocating the energy that you put into the relationship, please look elsewhere. You're some women's prayer request.
I repeat, do not stoop low by constantly begging her for her attention. It will make you a weak man and she won't respect you any longer.
2. Her Love
Another thing that you should distance yourself from begging is the love of your girlfriend or wife. Women who love you will never let you suffer to notice the love that they have for you.
They will simply show it in words and in deeds. But when a woman doesn't love you, she will not want to have anything to do with you. Your constant begging for her love will give you up for manipulation.
Even if she accepts to date you, she is only going to give you pitiful love. It won't be genuine. Moreover, anything begged for in a relationship will demand constant begging to maintain.
Even in marriage, you may have to spend the rest of your life begging her to love you. Let her love come to you naturally; do not force it.
3. Money
Some guys can go so low to the point of begging their girlfriends or wives for money. They do this even if they are capable of getting the money elsewhere.
This is very shameful. When you are dating a girl who is richer than you, you may be tempted to be requesting some favors from her. I tell you what, do not fall for such temptation.
This will means that, you are a liability and a lazy dude who don't know how to hustle for your own money. The more money you beg from her, the more you lose your respect and dignity.
Some women can use it against you whenever there is a problem between you two. She will be quick to remind of how useless you are in the relationship.
Save yourself from this type of embarrassment. You deserve better.
4. S£.x
S£x is the food that nourishes our emotional being. But it should come naturally from mutual consent. You should never be seen begging for int!macy from your girlfriend.
A girl who loves you will not deny you the opportunity to eat the food she prepared down there for you. She will willingly come over and you will both spend some good time together.
Do not be a slave to s.£x to the point that your girlfriend can use it to manipulate you. Trust me, there are some men who cannot have s£.x with their wives when they need it. They only get it when the woman is ready, or they literally go on bended knees to beg for it.
Do not beg for something that should be freely given. Begging will reduce you to nothing valuable than a s.£x slave. Respect yourself, my brother.
5. Respect
Last on this list is respect! Never ever beg for respect from your spouse. Respect is something that men cherish so much, and when they are not getting it, some may resort to begging for it. That's a big wrong move.
A woman who disrespects you doesn't love you. There is no amount of begging that will make her respect you. She might even use that as an opportunity to disrespect you more.
When you observe that your wife or girlfriend respects everyone but you, it means she doesn't really love you. It could also means that you are living a life that she is not happy about. In that case, you need to do an introspection and change those bad attitudes.
Conclusion
A man has so much ego to be seen literally begging a girl for everything including respect. You should not do that. Maintain your dignity.
A quick recap of the five things you should never beg your partner for: her attention, her love, money, respect and s.£x. Stay far away from begging for any of the five things explained in this article and you will see how your relationship will blossom.
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