Rules To Follow When Sending a DM to a Girl

Social media is a platform where people interact on daily basis. It is where a lot of human connections happen.

People find helpers on social media. Others have found jobs, partners and quality friends on the various social media platforms.

In this article, we are zooming in on how to enter the message inbox of a lady you see and admire on any of the social media outfits. 

We shall be discussing the general rules that you need to follow in order to increase your chances of getting a reply and possibly a positive response for your request.

These rules will also save you from embarrassing yourself in the inbox of a random girl you have just met online.  

Like I said before, people have found love on social media, and it is not even up for debate. You can also find the love of your life on the various platforms if you know how to go about. 

This is where I step in to help you with all the clues that you need. Without further ado, let's dive deep into the details.

1. Go Through Their Timeline to Know Their Relationship Status

The first rule is that, you should not just rush into the DM of a lady you have just met online. Take your time and gather some basic information about her before making a move.

You should, first of all, go through her timeline and monitor her posts to be able to determine whether she is single or engaged. From her posts and photos shared, you can have a fair idea of her relationship status.

When you are equipped with this basic fact, you will be more confident to approach her and hope that your application for her love will be accepted.

If you fail to gather basic information about her, you may end up toasting a married woman and getting embarrassed. Avoid this by doing the basic stuffs that matter.

2. Introduce Yourself Properly

People use pseudonyms on social media, and it will be really hard to tell the true identity of everyone you meet online unless you know them in real life. 

Because of this, you need to introduce yourself properly to the girl. Do not assume that she knows you from your interactions online. She doesn't know you beyond the platform.

Even if you are using your real name and photos, you need to introduce yourself again to confirm that it is really you. 

The introduction is very important, and this will give her a lead into your personal life. She might even begin to develop a soft spot for you from your introduction.

3. Be Patient and Wait For a Reply Before Sending Your Next Message

When you send your message, probably a salutation and an introduction, you might not get noticed. She might not visit her inbox at that moment. 

You need to be patient and wait for her to reply your earlier message before you send a follow up message. Do not spam her inbox with all manner of messages.

It will be boring to read all those messages and she might not even pay attention to you. 

Again, do not assume that your message must get a response. That is quite a bad entitlement mentality. It is not compulsory for her to reply your message. Take it lightly and do not go hard on her.

4. Be Mindful of Spelling Errors

In your messages, please be mindful of your spellings and other basic grammatical mistakes. Unless the lady is also someone who doesn't write any better English, you should always make sure you edit your messages properly.

Why is this so important? It will make your message clear without ambiguities. She will also know that you are a serious individual who have an appreciation for good and well composed messages.  

Some people get turned off by bad grammar, especially one that has to do with basic spelling errors. 

5. State Your Intentions

Another rule to consider when you are in the inbox of a lady is to go straight to the point by stating your intentions. Do not go about beating around the bush.

Tell her the reasons for hitting her inbox. Make your message concise and very clear to be understood by everyone. 

6. Be Moderate in Your Compliments

Some men make the mistake of sending a lot of compliments about a lady, thinking that they will get flattered by those messages and agree to date them. 

That's a wrong move, bro. Do not fall for such. There are a lot of women out there who don't find such behavior cool. They don't want you to be all over them, showering them with all manner of undeserving compliments.

You can say nice things about her, but make sure you don't go about describing how her looks turn you on. That's not cool. 

7. Be Respectful 

As a general rule, you should be decent and respectful throughout your engagement with the girl. Do not lose your cool and go about passing disparaging comments about her.

Approaching her can only yield two results – positive or negative. When it is positive, you have won a jackpot, but when it doesn't go as you anticipated, accept it graciously and don't disrespect her in any way or form.

A rude person is detested by many including the girl that you are planning to enter her DM. Be a gentleman and respect her dignity as someone you admire.

Conclusion

Getting a girl to date on social media has become cheaper than it used to be. There are many different social media platforms where you can get a girl to date. 

When you follow the general rules governing how to enter the DM of a lady, you will have an upper hand over all the others who are chasing her.

You must not ignore any of the rules outlined in the article, unless you do not want to win the love of the girl.