Challenges Men Who Marry Rich Women Face
There are some men whose prayer request is to find and marry a rich woman. Whiles this request is valid and has no real problems, it takes a good rich woman to make a good wife.
There are some women who will never keep a beautiful home when they are rich. These women are not marriage materials, if you ask me.
Like I stated just a while ago, it is not a crime to wish for a rich woman to marry. But the question you should be asking yourself is, whether this rich woman will be humble enough to give you peace of mind in the home.
Will she give you room and freedom to operate your role as the head of the family? This is where the real problem starts.
In this article, we are going to learn about some of the challenges Men who get married to rich women face in their marriages.
Even though some men are lucky enough to get rich and humble women to marry, the majority of others have fallen victims of abuse and other forms of disrespectful behavior in their marital homes.
Without wasting much time, let's get into the details.
Challenges Men Who Marry Rich Women Face
Loneliness
The rich woman hardly gets time for her family, including her legally married husband. She is always busy with projects and talking money with her customers.
The issues of money and bad business moves she made within a period can affect her whole mood, and she is likely to transfer her frustrations to the husband or even the children.
Some rich business women leave home at dawn and come back only when the whole family is asleep. They just come in, shower and roll the blanket over themselves and start to also enjoy some sleep.
The children and husband are denied the right to physical bonding with her. This is a very big challenge that most men who marry rich women face in their lives.
Constant Disrespect
If you look around, the majority of single women in menopause or approaching menopause are the well-to-do or highly educated in society.
They lack the humility to respect people below their status including their husbands. It takes a highly patient man to tolerate the habits of some rich women.
They usually look down upon their husbands and make it seems like the men are just in their lives because of the money that they will get. They do not consider the fact that the man can love them genuinely.
Again, they will make you literally a slave with the believe that you cannot do anything without them. You are reduced to just an errand boy instead of a husband who is expected to be in charge and in control.
This is why most men can't stand rich women in a relationship. They rather remain single than finding the man who will stoop that low for them to be manipulating.
Lack of Int!macy
Survey has it that, more than 70% of men who marry rich women hardly get int!mate with them. The woman claims to be exhausted all the time and will not want to have anything to do with the husband.
The man can never get to play his manly role in the night unless the woman is the one requesting it. She gives you access as and when she deems fit.
Men who wants to have more int!macy with their women always stay miles away from rich women. They don't want to be bamboozled with too many excuses when they're in the mood.
Have No Control Over Children
A rich woman takes possession of the children and the husband has not got any power over the children he helped brought to the world.
When there is a misunderstanding between them and they are going to divorce, she will use her influence to take custody of all your children, leaving you childless.
This is a big challenge, especially for those who practice patrilineal system of inheritance where the children belong mainly to the father.
Lost of Dignity
Finally, a man who marry a rich woman will no longer have any form of dignity left. He will be reduced to nothing but an errand boy and someone who lacks command in the marriage.
When such happens, most of the men park out of the marriage and save the little dignity left in them. The few who think they can endure, pulls through, even though not as easy as you may think.
Conclusion
It is not all rosy with men who get married to rich women. A lot of pain and anguish are hidden in the fake smiles they portray in public.
They face very big challenges in the marriage and some are going through depression whiles putting up a strong personality in public.
But there are still some good rich women out there who will have time for the family, respect the husband, get int!mate and perform all her role as a wife.
If you are lucky, you can find someone like this to marry.
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