Mistakes Men Make When Approaching a Lady

There are a couple of avoidable mistakes that men make when approaching women. These mistakes have affected most men in their dating game.

In this article, we shall be looking at some of the most common mistakes that men make, preventing them from getting the opportunity to date the women they love so much.

Having the ability to approach a woman is one type of confidence that is not often spoken about. Trust me, there are a lot of men out there who cannot stand in front of a woman and profess love to her.

Immediately after this article, you will be able to navigate your way through the anxiety of dating. It will significantly improve your life. Without further ado, let's jump into it.

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Not Smiling Enough

A smile is a language understood by all. Even babies understand a smile to mean happiness and friendliness.

As a man, if you want to succeed in your approach towards a woman, you should always remember to keep a smiling face. This way, you will be able to have your way around because the lady will know that you are a friendly guy.

Men are naturally built stronger, and you should not use your bulk size to intimidate her. To get her relieved, you need to rely on your charming smile.

Not Showing Respect

Every human being has an ego to protect, and you must have this at the back of your mind before approaching a lady. Women should be treated with respect and care.

If you approach a woman with arrogance, she will not listen to you, not to talk of accepting your proposal. No one wants to have anything to do with a disrespectful person.

It is a huge mistake that some men make, and you must avoid that. Always show respect to everyone, especially when you are approaching a woman for a relationship.

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Arrogance

Some men are arrogant by nature. They sometimes call this confidence, but it is not. Confidence is one of the good traits that every person must have, but when it is crossing the line to arrogance, you must apply the brakes.

Just like the point preceding this, you must not let arrogance lead you into disrespecting the lady that you want to date. It is not proper, and you should desist from that.

Invasion of Personal Space

One other mistake that most men make when approaching a woman is the invasion of their space. You must always remember to respect boundaries and not be seen as an intruder.

When you budge into someone's private space without being invited, it can be annoying and frustrating to the individual. You need to learn this and avoid that mistake when next you are approaching a lady.

Always seek the consent of the woman when you are planning a visit. If she says no, please respect that and do not go. Do not pay surprise visits to her.

Inappropriate or Insensitive Remarks

There are some remarks that one must not make the mistake of passing about the women they want to date. What may sound funny and cool with you might be a whole issue with another person.

It is not right to make negative comments about the personality of the individual. The weight or height of the fellow should not be discussed by you as they may take offense to that.

Remember to keep the conversation with the woman at a level that is considered normal. Talk about things that are not about her personality. There are a lot of social and philosophical issues you can tickle her brain with.

Talking Too Much

Another blunder that men make when approaching a woman is when they try to hijack the conversation and make themselves the chief speakers.

You must learn how to listen and when to speak. Do not make the whole meeting about you. She also has ideas to share, and you must listen to her as well.

Failing to listen and trying to dominate the discussion can be a turnoff for most women. Always take turns to speak and to listen.

Not Paying Attention to Your Appearance

Trust me, most men make this mistake a lot of the time when they are approaching a woman. They dress shabbily and leave their hair unkempt.

Personal hygiene is good when you are approaching a lady. Smell nice, wear neat clothes, and remember to also keep oral hygiene in check. Failure to adhere to this will make her bounce you.

Conclusion

To increase your chances around women, you must be ready to do things right. You must avoid the mistakes that others make to avoid being rejected like them.

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